FAQ
I’m not sure I have the time—will I really use the community and show up for it?
Great question! This is a time to be honest with yourself and ask these questions:
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Are you tired of being unsatisfied and unfulfilled either sexually, emotionally, or both?
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Do you feel unseen, unheard, unappreciated, or even disrespected?
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Do you feel disconnected and yearn for a genuine, authentic connection?
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Do you feel insecure, self-doubt, shame, or guilt?
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If you are a man, do you feel it’s unfair or overwhelming to automatically be categorized as toxic?
If the answer to any of these questions is “yes”, I invite you to contemplate all the ways you might be able to solve these issues and then consider what the most efficient, effective way might be.
*** Successful people in any walks of life recognize the importance of having mentors, teachers and coaches on board to help them both fulfill, and maximize, their true potential. We were put on this Earth to walk this path together.
I feel like it's too much money?
While we can appreciate the hesitancy in investing money in yourself and your intimate life, we ask you to seriously contemplate or journal about how much money you spend on things that do not help you to have the health, authentic relationships, and intimacy you truly want in your life.
Ask yourself:
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How much money do you spend on vacations hoping that you will finally get the respite and relaxation you need to have the intimacy you want, only to fall back into stressful patterns when you go back to “regular” life?
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How much money do you spend on coffee, alcohol, nicotine, cannabis, ice cream, sugar, fast food, or eating out at restaurants?
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How much money do you spend on your car, both on the purchase and its maintenance?
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How much money do you spend on clothes, shoes, outerwear, gear, toys, etc?
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How much money do you spend on your kids, family, and outings of any sort?
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How much money have you spent on porn, OnlyFans (nothing against OnlyFans!), sexy movies, sex toys, etc ?
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How much money have you spent on shows?
Then ask yourself how much any of the above stuff has contributed to your overall well being, health, happiness, stellar sex life, and intimate, authentic relationship?
If you have spent over $40 as a single, or over $80 as a couple per month on a combination of any of the above, ask yourself this question:
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During the next 10 months, where you can reduce your expenditure in any of the above categories and allocate those funds to this community and getting the love, sex, and intimacy you truly desire?
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If you participate in the community and do the work, I guarantee that you will indeed see and feel the changes you are wanting to make.
What does it look like inside the Community?
We use an awesome online Private Platform called Mighty Networks, it's very similar to FaceBook in community functionality, but better!
There are no ads, no algorithms, and no worries about who sees what you are doing inside our community.
Plus, everything you need resides in this one place! Hooray!
What do you offer, week to week?
What do "offerings" look like?
A Week in the Life
I know... it's hard to sign up for something when you don't know when the gatherings happen. Here's the current schedule as of December 2023.
And if you can't make it live, that's totally ok!
🗓️ All events are recorded & replays will be available soon after. 🎥
🌱 Our Live Gatherings flux and flow on different days and times to help accommodate schedules, check the Gatherings Tab to see what is coming up or see what has happened in the past!
Monday- We Post a Question or Poll on Monthly Theme
These questions get you thinking and contemplating, propelling you forward on your journey in a way that is totally on your schedule.
Tuesday- Adventure of the Week Practice
Pre-recorded. Again, you get to participate on your clock. Some examples include: Guidance from Card Readings, Meditations, Movement Practices, Read a Poem and Respond, Solo Date Night Missions, Healthy Recipes, Inspirations, we are always dreaming up new and exciting adventures for YOU!
Wednesday- Member Highlight 1-2x/month
You get to check out other members lives
Thursday- Live Gathering, 6:00pm - 7:30pm Mountain Time
(currently twice per month, all events except for our Fireside Chat Social Hour will be recorded and replays will be available soon after)
Friday- Integration Time
Saturday- Integration Time
Sunday- Weekly Integration Practice: Wins, Insights, Learnings
How do I know you're not a sex cult?
Great question and we appreciate you asking it!
We acknowledge that these things do exist in our world, and it is one of the reasons we do the work that we do.
Two of our core values are Integrity and Impact. What that means to us, is that we are always striving to make an impact on our community members/clients/students and their individual lives, and thus the world at large—but only with absolute integrity and provided always that it serves the highest good of all.
We adhere to the highest code of ethics, which EXCLUDES having sexual relationships or being a surrogate with clients/students. We are here to teach you how to get your own needs met. We will not meet them for you.
We also acknowledge that we are in a position of power with our clients/students, and as such, we also want to empower you with choice and the skills to negotiate consent conversations and everything in your life. We do not want you to please us.
You always have the freedom to take what resonates with you and leave the rest behind. We aim to help you push towards your edges, resulting in real growth and change, but not go over your edges into overwhelm or trauma. Your “no” is equally as valuable as your “yes”. You always have the freedom to choose what is best for you.
Can you help if I have experienced trauma?
Yes!
We are trauma informed, and can help many people who have experienced trauma, but we are not trauma therapists. If you, or we, feel like you would benefit from a trauma therapist, you are welcome to work with your own trauma therapist if you already have one, in conjunction with this work. Also, we do have wonderful trauma therapists that we can refer you to and who you can work with, in conjunction with our community and offerings at any time.
Is this a cam-girl/sex worker/escort service?
No.
This site and our services are for educating, coaching, and guiding and helps you learn how to get your needs met with yourself and/or with a partner.
We do not act as a surrogate partner. We do not meet your needs for you.
Does my partner have to join too?
No.
You can absolutely do this work yourself! Only one person in a relationship needs to do this work in order to shift the relationship. Once you start, your partner will notice that something is different about you... guaranteed!
Can my partner/husband/wife share the
same account?
No.
Though we can't stop you from sharing your account with your partner, we ask that you each have your own account for the integrity of the community and for the integrity of your own individual journey.