“Life doesn’t make any sense without interdependence. We need each other, and the sooner we learn that, the better for us all.”
- Erik Erikson
A Place Where You Can:
Authentically Connect with yourself, nature, and others resulting in feeling more grounded, and the ability to make decisions from a place of calm instead of fear
Restore & Strengthen your voice and navigate communication and negotiation inside and outside the bedroom with confidence, integrity, and respect
Work with and Process unwanted or overwhelming feelings through tactile, visual, and embodied sensual creativity
Understand and Accept your routes to arousal, meet your emotional and sexual needs, as well as those of your partner's
Enjoy a Full-filling satisfying joyous relationship with yourself and others
Our Values
Authenticity
Connection to Nature and the Wild
Regenerative Growth
Eco-Sustainability & Sufficiency
Empowerment
Health & Wellness
Integrity & Impact
Patience & Gentleness
Inquiry & Contemplation
What is
Red Jasper?
Red Jasper is known as the Stone of Endurance, a gentle but vital stimulator of chi, or Life Force; bringing physical strength and energy, stamina, focus and determination.
Its steady frequency calms the emotional body creating a lasting stable energy for improving health or overcoming illness, setting goals and following through to completion, facing unpleasant tasks and having the courage to rectify wrongs. It is a stone of passion, useful for restoring and rejuvenating the libido, and in manifesting creative ideas. A perfect stone for our mission.
The "RJ" is a brushstroke that stands alone in it's intrigue and invites the raw rustic sexy imperfection that all humans are. The bold simplicity both signifies masculinity and invites the masculine in deeper to the feminine.
Our Purpose
To educate, alchemize, and support the human relationship and sexual experience...
Cultivating a culture where all humans can feel loved , accepted, and like they belong...
Honoring our own, and everyone else's needs with love, respect, and integrity...
Ending sexual shame and fear, as well as boundary trangressions, intimate and sexual violence of all kinds.
Why I Started This Community...
"People need resources to talk and learn about intimacy and sexuality.
It’s imperative.
It improves quality of life, supports healthy relationships, and leads to better health.
Yet, for the general population, the price point for these kinds of resources is just too much.
Most relationship coaches and therapists charge anywhere from $150 on the low side, to upwards of $1000 per hour, making sex education and guidance accessible to only those who have accumulated wealth."
Why a Community?
A community is the single most powerful force in helping people change their lives. While that may sound dramatic, it also happens to be true. A community is the most effective way for people to:
Belong to something bigger than ourselves, which in turn unlocks new sources of identity, energy, and creativity.
Efficiently build new practices and change habits with the least amount of effort.
Generate new ideas, identify patterns, and make connections we can’t get on our own.
Navigate change and uncertainty, and pursue results and transformation in their lives.
Ready to dive in?
Learn more about The Love & Intimacy Collective
Meet Nicki
I have worked with some of the greatest experts, like Jaiya, creator of the Erotic Blueprints™ and consultant for Tony Robbins’ Platinum clients; Joseph Kramer, creator of Sexological Bodywork; Satyen Raja, Founder of Accelerated Evolution; and Orpheus Black, Spiritual BDSM Guru.
A leading holistic relationship and intimacy educator, I specialize in the intersections of physical, mental, and emotional health with nature, food, artistic expression, and true beauty.
The Red Jasper Community was founded to help make intimacy education, coaching, and guidance accessible to all; facilitating connection, relationship, and belonging to ourselves, others, and the non-human world.
Meet Beth
"I am an Erotic Blueprints™ Coach and I came to it after healing my own intimate life with my partner of 16 years.
I have also been a massage therapist for 35 years. I am a dancer. I like modern, hip hop, and contact improv. I am also a pole artist and recently took a burlesque class.
I just moved to Washington State and my body feels calm and relaxed among the landscape of tall green trees and ocean views. I have lived in all the 4 directions:
North - Washington State
South - Austin, TXEast - Washington D.C
West - California
I like to cook delicious food from the farmer’s market and I have been to many farmer’s markets all over the country.
Something else about me is that I can play the ukulele.
I met Nicki while taking a certification from an incredible Kink master Orpheus Black. I look forward to meeting you!"
-Beth Adrienne
"I am over the moon thrilled to be able to serve more people and do it in a community where cooperation and "hive mind" will inevitably lead us to more Light, Love, and Freedom for us all...
AND we get to have a ridiculous amount of fun doing it!"
A Big Thanks
A big thanks and gratitude goes out to Great Spirit, all of my Guides, Muses, Ancestors, and Allies for bringing me to this moment in time and space, and for giving me the courage to stand for the wisdom of what I have learned and experienced in my life.
I am so grateful to all my mentors and those who have walked this path before me, as well as the supportive communities I am a part of.
I am especially thankful to my partner Ryan and all of you who support me in the work that I do, I couldn't do it without you. For realz. ❤️